While reading Girls Like Us, what struck me the most were the pictures Lloyd painted of the extreme violence these women and girls face while living “the life”. This quote in particular made me extremely uneasy and angry. These two scenarios depicted are unfortunately the norm for those who are trafficked and exploited and not just by their pimps, although pimps do use systematic violence to control these women. In the essay Prostitution and Trafficking in Nine Countries: An Update on Violence and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, the authors point out how much of the violence women and girls experience through trafficking is by the johns themselves. In recounting one woman’s experiences, “The job required her to tolerate verbal abuse, being grabbed and pinched on the legs, buttock, breasts and crotch… sometimes resulting in bruises and scratches… and severe pain… physically brutalized...hair was pulled as means of control and torture…she was burned with cigarettes by customers who raped her” (35). After reading this particular story and already knowing by what means pimps use to keep women exploited to ultimately make money, I felt like this violence is more deep rooted in society than previously thought. The entire sex industry is fueled by overall violent attitudes toward women and, apparently, a belief that given the “right” situation this is okay. Reading this type of graphic material makes me wonder how any law enforcement who sees this or people who read this could think this type of life is a choice and a criminal act on the part of the woman.
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Works Cited
Farley, Melissa, Ann Cotton, Jacqueline Lynne, Sybille Zumbeck, Frida Spiwak, Maria E. Reyes, Dinorah Alvarez, and Ufuk Sezgin. "Prostitution and Trafficking in Nine Countries." Journal of Trauma Practice 2.3-4 (2004): 33-74. < http://www.prostitutionresearch.com/pdf/Prostitutionin9Countries.pdf>.
Lloyd, Rachel. Girls like Us: Fighting for a World Where Girls Are Not for Sale, an Activist Finds Her Calling and Heals Herself. New York: HarperCollins, 2011. Print.